Thursday, September 6, 2007
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Through Botswana
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Papa Sal!
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Driving back to S.A.
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Roofing!
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Kyte Flying Contest
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School for Orphans
Children in the school getting their graded drawings. The challenge is for each church in an area to open a school for orphans, that they own and run. The organisation would provide food and teacher fees, and 25% of construction costs if the church wishes to build a structure. This is so that the church itself feels ownership for the school, rather than being knocked off balance and feeling overwhelmed if the organization leaves the area one day.
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Labels: close to Likasi, community of Toyota
Benches for School
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Likasi Youth
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Youth Program
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Packing Food
The white powder looks so suspicious! Corn meal is an essential part of the diet in Africa. We get together each month with the volunteers to pack food for the patients and orphans. They also get oil, beans, nuts, and sometimes dried fish.
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Food Distribution
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Communal Water Tap
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Saer Community, Likasi
A typical mining/railroad building town. Dense, void of social services, and saturated with HIV/AIDS.
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Likasi
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Labels: Home for three months
Living in DRC
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Congo DRC
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Masoyi Family
We all got into the back of the “buckie” (Pick up truck) with three changes of clothes and minimal toiletries, and were on our way into the community. Each of us was going to stay with one child headed household (houses managed by children/youth because their parents have died from HIV/AIDS). The buckie dropped several others off and finally pulled up to a house with a fence that was flopping over towards the street, this was my new place. There was a dirt yard with a tree in the corner. Two structures were on the site, one was concrete block, the other was made of wood slats with tarp fastened on its exterior. Three brothers, their younger sister, and 9 year old orphaned cousin lived in the two structures. The concrete block house contained the t.v., dining table, and the beds for the two oldest boys. The second shack contained the kitchen, with two bedrooms, one for the youngest sister and their nine year old cousin, the other for the youngest boy of the family. The stay with our families was one of the greatest privileges I’ve been given in life. These youth opened their homes to me and accepted me into their lives. Stepping into their reality was heartwarming as well as devastating, They are still kids. They socialize, neighboring kids come over, they laugh, chat, sing songs, watch lots of t.v. on their small black and white (American soap operas everyday). Yet growing up quickly is a pressure they have faced since their parents died. They cook and clean (house looks impeccable, regardless of the little they possess), wash and iron their clothes, help each other with homework, plant and harvest maze in the small yard that they have, repair their house, and try to repair their own damaged souls and bodies as years of neglect, sometimes abuse, and often sickness build up. The family also fill their large water jars which they carry in a wheelbarrow. They walk a large distance to a communal tap that is only open on Saturdays, waiting in line for hours, sometimes from 4 in the morning. If the drunk guy responsible for the tap decides to shut it off, they do not have water for that week. Infrastructure is painfully absent in this populated settlement. If I left my empty water bottle somewhere at the end of the night, I would find it in the freezer full of water the next morning. I had forgotten to wash my socks one day, and found it hanging on the line to dry behind the house. They would make sure that I washed my hands first in the bucket prior to eating. They would poor me more water for my bucket bath, and boil more of it so that it would be warmest. I did not hear them complain once about their situation, unless it was brought up in a joking manner in order to be laughed about. Their challenges in life are great, but what breaks my heart the most is the love that they display in the face of their circumstances. There are many horrible circumstances here. The oldest brother Titus showed me his English to SiSwati dictionary one day. It was in bad condition, and only started at the letter “D”. You can find out a lot about a person from the things that they underline. It was amazing what was circled in this book. Some words were hope, faith, marriage, grace, pray, faith, poverty. When I got to “O” the word orphan happened to be circled, and the page across from it was filled with scratches, that whole page was filled with scratches. Seeing those scratches that come from frustration, pain, and suffering, made the kids’ painful reality sink in a little more. I go to visit my family every Friday. Last Friday I was surprised to see the youngest sister Sbomgile holding her child. The child was not with us when I was staying with the family, he was being taken care of by the grandmother who had gone to Johannesburg. Sbomgile is 16, and has a two year old child named Sbusisu. I still have not haven’t been able to ask about how the child came about and where the father is, in fear of what the response could be. I asked some of the youth what their dream jobs were. Titus the oldest wants to be an investor, one of their friends Carroll said that she wanted to have a radio program. Sbomgile, holding her child Sbusisu, said her dream was “to be a daughter…I want to be a daughter.” We go out on home based care with a nurse to take care of patients on some days. We entered the house of a frail mother and her young daughter who were suffering from tuberculosis brought on by aids. After our nurse Emily talked to them in SwaSi, the mother went on to say how much she wished that she had enough health so she could sweep someone’s yard for money. That is when the daughter broke down into violent crying. After comforting her, Emily asked the girl what her favorite song was. The daughter whispered the name in her weak voice, and the African volunteers began to sing the SiSwati song. Most of Each person has their favorite song, regardless of weather they have Aids, or are orphaned. The worse weapon we can give Aids is letting it turn people into statistics. They are not numbers in a PowerPoint to be presented at the next UN Aids conference. They are not digits on Excel files to be crossed off once the funds from Bill Gates come in. Each person is unique, and craves meaningful relationships. It’s a great privilege to be here and share in people’s lives.
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Everything was in harmony. The rocks, vegetation, animals, waterfalls, everything. After starting the decent into the canyon, we heard baboons verbalizing themselves from many directions at many distances. I don’t know if you’ve heard a baboon scream, but I think it’s worth googling. It’s this blood curdling shout that makes you think you’ve
violated everything that a baboon holds dear. At one point we were about to cross a brook at the bottom of a canyon, when we saw about 40 baboons, big and small, grandpas and little babies, on the ground and in the trees. The kids would come and look at us curiously, then run back to their moms. There was so much tension and curiosity from both sides. They were eating figs. We were so different, us group of people and this community of baboons. We have brains that question existence and look for answers, we have libraries and parliaments, noble peace prizes and airplanes, theme parks and drive troughs. We have divorce, Prozac, guns, rape, poverty, suicide, harmful words, manipulation, pollution and so much more crapyness, and here they are…eating figs. There’s an innocence in that which was touching to whiteness. To see such raw nature makes you feel so many emotions. Makes you feel vulnerable, and in awe of what exists (happily!) without the involvement of a human mind or hand. Having studied
architecture there has been something in the back of my mind telling me that without “designers” the world would be a hideous place, and we are needed to make it tolerable, beautiful, beneficial etc. But that isn’t true, as humans we molest nature so often and so severely that it becomes a sea of intolerables. Then we hire people to construct bubbles of tolerable landscape within the chaos we ourselves have created. I have to say that I felt intimidated by the beauty, partly because I knew that I could never compete with it. I was also thankful to see somewhere that our civilization had not touched, and had a desperation about hoping it would remain that way. It’s not just that there wasn’t a MacDonalds there, but there were no hand rails on the edges of cliffs, no designated photo areas, no caution signs, no light posts etc. A series of “safety engineers” and lawyers from the wilderness bureau were not there with industrial glue and sponges to get rid of sharp edges, abrupt corners, and drops in elevation. This was raw nature, and we walked carefully and respectfully through it. I’m happy we did.
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Labels: Blide River Canyon, South Africa
The guys on the building team usually sang as we drove to play soccer after work, they are being trained in building while getting a small incentive, so that they can enter the desperate job market with experience at Hands@Work. Many have lost parents and siblings to hiv/aids. We were working on a multi care centre for orphans.
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Labels: going to play soccer after work
Monday, September 3, 2007
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Labels: living with child headed household, Masoyi, South Africa